Divorced couples have revealed that money is one of the main reasons for their breakups. It's not just a lack of money, because many affluent couples have struggles and tension about money. Arguments about money-not sex or household chores-are what couples between the ages of 18 and 40 fight over the most, according to a recent survey. In fact, money is such a troublesome issue that 82 percent of survey respondents say they have hidden shopping bags and various purchases from their spouse. So much for marital oneness and unity, huh? If God owns it all-why is money such an issue of strife?
In a marriage, it's not a matter of who's right, but submitting to one another in love.
After the new year the fusion class will be exploring ways to handle money in marriage. What are some things that you do as a couple to have a healthy perspective on money and make sure it's not a source of strife?
P/Steve
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My husband and I are VERY like-minded when it comes to financial goals and decisions. We are both very involved in the situation - it is not just one or the other of us doing all the finances. It helps too that we talk about any large dollar amount spending. I think in this economic struggle it is even harder to be on the same page. Strongly suggest listening or reading things by Dave Ramsey!
Well said mandakay! I too think Dave Ramsey is a good resource. I would go one step further and suggest signing up for a small group that focuses on 'financial peace' as one of the target issues/discussions.
One other thing - my wife and I commit to is a monthly budget mtg. A typical mtg takes place at a coffee shop; we evaluate the money coming, the money going out(shopping @ Aldi ;) ), future expenditures, goals, dreams, and we take significant time to pray.
We did take the financial peace class last year - I LOVED it, all really great stuff.
I think what's tough these days regarding money is reminding ourselves daily that God is in control, not the economy. We (personally, and WE as in, Americans) have become so comfortable with our lifestyles that threatening job losses and pay cuts, and increase in price of everything is very scary. Need to remember that God holds us all in his hands - and has a plan for us and our kids for the future.
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